lived a hard life?
pagh ! try telling that to any woman who has to live under some real hardships, like taliban rule.
she, for the most part, brought it all on herself and had more than enough chances to get straight
no sympathies, here, i'm afraid
at the end of the end it's the start of a journey to a much better place and this wasn't bad so a much better place would have to be special...no need to be sad...