yeah, i think i can speak on behalf of all of us when i say sorry you have to go through any unneccessary bullsh*t. if there is anything i can do to help, please...don't hesitate to ask. sincerely.
and i hope you can trace back to find out who he is. if you do, i want to ask you to let us know who did it. i'm not ordinarily in favor of "outing" someone, but if this person is doing something hateful to someone we consider friends, than we should know who the coward is.
I want to tell her that I love her a lot, but I got to get a belly full of wine.