Liam, glad to hear that your mother is home. That's great! But, take it easy on her. My mother had major surgery about 2 years ago, and when she got home and I had to take care of her, I thought I was gonna literally crack. Every 5 seconds she'd be calling me for something. Then after she was getting better, I felt extremely guilty and selfish for the way I felt and acted. I felt like a total jerk. Here is the woman that took care of me my entire life and wiped my bum, yet I'm gonna get annoyed when she needs help after a surgery? Not to come down on you, but I know what you're going through. Just look at the big picture. She's alive and she's on the mend, that's what's important. Trust me, you'll feel guilty later on if you allow your frustration to show.