i don't know, believe it or not, if i can even respond or add anything of real depth.
isn't that a first...right ?
the wife and i have never really fought or argued...we've had minor disagreements, who doesn't, but they've never got heated...ever.
certainly never called her any names that might prove to be...provacative...after all, she knows where the knives are kept !
even past girlfriends...lordy, wasn't that a long time ago...i never fought or argued with: i never saw the point; after all...i fully admit it..i wanted
something from them, it wouldn't do any good to piss them off, right ?
i guess i should count myself very lucky...
part of this is that, i learned a very long time ago, that if you just find a way to agree with the woman without
selling your soul, of course...it makes ...some things so much easier
and i like
other things ....so this has been pretty easy to do
the other thing is i've never really hung out with (or, in the past, dated) anyone who i didn't get to know first and pretty much like
but, i very much get your point about the differences in arguing...and i agree, wholeheartedly..if more men would react as you suggest, things would go alot smoother..
as for fixing things...i'm at a bit of a loss...i've found honesty is the best answer almost every time..and so far, it hasn't steered me too far wrong
we've all so often been brought up to believe that there has to be a winner
...sometimes, if you both work hard at making it so, both can win...you just have to try real hard to meet in the middle...no winners...except for the both of you...after all, you are on the same team, right ?